Gay Male Fantasies with Erotic Cruelty
One type of gay male fantasy that straight men engage in is called erotic cruelty. This phrase means: Visual art which invites men to respond on a sexual level when viewing images of male characters.My creative works incorporate male erotic cruelty which can arouse male viewers sexually (regardless of their sexual orientation) when they view images or read stories of vulnerable and defenseless men in distress and jeopardy.
Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Orientation
As an established gay male artist and storyteller, I have learned the truth that my stories and images of highly masculine men who are muscular are not appealing to gay men who prefer stories and images of men who choose to appear or behave or speak like females. The name of my website, Bleed and Hurt Like Men Do, is a clear statement of what you can expect to find here. The male sexual arousal from viewing the images or reading the stories is what’s important here—not the man’s sexual identity or orientation.Sexual arousal of men always happens separately from their sexual identity or orientation. Male sexuality is not “fixed” necessarily; it is largely “fluid.” Men who understand and accept this truth set themselves free from guilt and shame to enjoy a richly rewarding life of erotic arousal and pleasure.
Some straight men actively seek erotic arousal by fantasizing about being taken advantage of and dominated by gay men.
Straight males who engage in such fantasies put themselves in mental images involving aggressive peril where they are forced by very dominant gay men to surrender and obey.
The ultimate erotic arousal outcome for such straight men is to orgasm against their will brought on by imagining being humiliated and shamed by gay men.